Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Combining cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices.

DBT is a comprehensive therapy combining cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. Developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan in the late 1980s and originally created to treat borderline personality disorder, DBT has since been adapted to address a wide range of mental health issues characterized by emotional dysregulation and impulsive behaviors.

The skills taught in DBT fall into four modules: mindfulness (focusing on the present moment non-judgmentally), distress tolerance (coping with crisis situations without making them worse), emotion regulation (understanding and managing intense emotions), and interpersonal effectiveness (navigating relationships assertively and effectively).

This may be a good fit if…

  • Emotions arrive fast and at full volume, and take a long time to come down
  • You act in ways during a crisis that you regret once it passes
  • Relationships run hot and cold and you are not sure why
  • You have been told you are too much, or you have concluded it yourself
  • Self-harm, suicidal thinking, or impulsive behaviour is part of the picture

Key benefits

Skills for the moment it is actually happening

Distress tolerance skills are built for the twenty minutes when everything is at its worst and you would otherwise do something damaging. They are deliberately simple, physical, and possible to use when your thinking has narrowed.

It holds both sides

The dialectic at the centre of DBT is that you are doing the best you can and you need to do better. Therapies that only validate can leave you stuck; therapies that only push feel like blame. Holding both is the mechanism, not a slogan.

Built for the hardest presentations

DBT was developed for chronically suicidal clients with borderline personality disorder, a group most treatments excluded. It has since been adapted for substance use, eating disorders, and adolescents, and remains the best-evidenced treatment for emotion dysregulation.

You learn the skills as skills

Skills training is taught explicitly, in modules, with practice between sessions, rather than hoped for as a by-product of a good therapeutic relationship.

How DBT works

The Four DBT Skill Modules

A practical toolkit for big emotions, taught and practiced in session and at home.

1

Mindfulness

Notice without reacting

2

Distress Tolerance

Survive crisis without making it worse

3

Emotion Regulation

Understand and shift emotion intensity

4

Interpersonal Effectiveness

Ask, say no, keep self-respect

The Dialectic at the Heart of DBT

Two things are true at once: you are doing the best you can, and you can do better.

Acceptance

Mindfulness and distress tolerance. Seeing the moment as it is, and getting through it without making it worse.

both / and

Change

Emotion regulation and interpersonal effectiveness. Building the skills to shift what you feel and how you ask for what you need.

How we offer DBT at Crown Counseling

Comprehensive DBT is a package: weekly individual therapy, a weekly skills group, phone coaching between sessions, and a consultation team for the clinicians. Not every practice can staff all four, and we will tell you plainly which parts we can provide and which we would refer out for.

  • Individual DBT with a clinician trained in the model
  • DBT-informed individual work where a full programme is not the right fit
  • Diary cards and behavioural chain analysis as standard
  • An honest referral when what you need is a full comprehensive programme

DBT-informed is not the same as DBT

A lot of therapists use DBT skills without delivering the model, and that can be genuinely useful. It is not the same treatment, and the research on outcomes is based on the full package. We use the phrase DBT-informed when that is what we mean, so you can tell the difference and make your own decision.

What to expect

DBT typically consists of individual therapy sessions, group skills training, and phone coaching for crisis situations. The full DBT program usually lasts at least six months to a year, though elements of DBT can be incorporated into other treatment approaches for those unable to commit to a full program.

  1. 1

    An assessment covering current risk, not only history

  2. 2

    Agreement on a target hierarchy: life-threatening behaviour first, then anything that disrupts therapy, then quality of life

  3. 3

    A diary card tracking urges, emotions, and skill use between sessions

  4. 4

    Chain analysis of a specific incident rather than a general discussion of the week

  5. 5

    Skills taught across four modules: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness

  6. 6

    A commitment of at least six months for a full course

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is DBT only for borderline personality disorder?

It was developed there and has the strongest evidence there, but it has been adapted successfully for substance use disorders, binge eating and bulimia, adolescent emotion dysregulation, and treatment-resistant depression. The common thread is emotions that run hotter and settle slower than is manageable.

Do I have to join a group?

For comprehensive DBT, yes: the skills group is where the skills are actually taught, and individual sessions are for applying them. If a group is not available or not possible for you, DBT-informed individual work is a reasonable alternative, and we will be clear that it is a different treatment.

What is phone coaching?

Brief, structured contact with your individual therapist between sessions, for the moment you need to use a skill and cannot remember how. It is not a crisis line and it is not open-ended support; it is coaching on one skill, usually in a few minutes.

How long does DBT take?

A standard course runs six months to a year, often longer for entrenched patterns. It is a serious time commitment and worth knowing that before you start.

What is a diary card?

A short daily record of emotions, urges, behaviours, and which skills you used. It stops sessions becoming a debate about how the week went and gives you both something concrete to look at.

Is DBT covered by insurance?

Individual DBT sessions are billed as psychotherapy and covered like any other session. Group skills training is billed separately and coverage varies, so we check it before you start.

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