Play Therapy

Play as a natural form of communication for children.

Play therapy is a psychotherapeutic approach primarily used with children. It utilizes play as a natural form of communication to help children express feelings, thoughts, and experiences. Through various play activities, therapists can assess, understand, and address psychological and social issues.

The therapy room is a safe space where children can explore feelings and behaviors without fear of consequences. The child generally leads the play, with the therapist following and reflecting, and play allows children to symbolically express and work through difficult experiences.

This may be a good fit if…

  • Your child is between roughly three and twelve
  • Behaviour has changed and nobody can get a straight answer about why
  • Something happened: a death, a separation, a move, a frightening event
  • Your child says they are fine and clearly is not
  • School has raised concerns you are not sure what to do with

Key benefits

It meets children where they already are

Children do not sit down and describe their inner life. They show it. Play therapy uses the language they already have rather than requiring them to learn yours.

Safe distance from hard material

A child who cannot talk about what happened at home will often play it out with figures, at one remove. That distance is what makes the material approachable.

Parents are part of it

Regular parent sessions are built in. You will not be left outside the room wondering, and much of the change happens in how the household responds rather than in the playroom.

Well-established, not improvised

Play therapy has decades of practice and research behind it across anxiety, trauma, behavioural difficulties, and adjustment to family change.

How Play Therapy works

How Play Becomes Therapy

For young children, play is the language. The therapist is trained to read it and respond in it.

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    Safety first

    The child leads. The therapist follows their play and builds trust before anything else.

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    Expression

    Sand tray, puppets, drawing, and games let the child show what they cannot yet say.

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    Working through

    Themes repeat and shift. The therapist reflects, names feelings, and gently adds new options.

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    Carrying it home

    New endings in play become new skills. Parents are coached so the gains hold at home and school.

The playroom toolkit

Sand trayPuppetsDrawingDollhouseBoard gamesStorytelling

How play therapy works at Crown Counseling

The first meeting is usually with parents alone, to get the history without your child present. Your child then has their own sessions in a room set up for it, and you meet your therapist regularly to go over what is emerging and what would help at home.

  • A parent-only intake before your child attends
  • A consistent room, a consistent time, and the same therapist each week
  • Regular parent sessions, typically every four to six weeks
  • Coordination with school when that would help, with your consent

What we will and will not tell you

You will get themes, progress, and practical guidance. You will not get a transcript. Children need to know the room is theirs, and a child who believes everything is reported back stops showing anything. The exception is safety: anything indicating your child is at risk comes to you immediately, and we say that plainly to the child too.

What to expect

The process begins with an intake meeting where the therapist meets with parents or caregivers to gather information and set goals. Initial sessions focus on building trust between the child and therapist, followed by regular play sessions where the child engages in free play or structured activities. Parents receive regular check-ins to discuss progress and strategies for supporting the child.

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    A parent intake session covering history, concerns, and goals

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    Weekly sessions of forty-five to fifty minutes in a dedicated playroom

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    Sand tray, figures, art materials, puppets, and games, chosen by your child

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    Themes rather than transcripts reported back to you

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    Parent sessions every four to six weeks to review and adjust

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    A typical course of twenty or more sessions, since children move at their own pace

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Frequently Asked Questions

What age is play therapy for?

Broadly three to twelve. Younger than three, the work is usually with parents. Older children and teenagers often move toward talking therapies, though many still do better with something in their hands.

How will I know it is working?

Usually through change at home and school before anything else: sleeping better, fewer meltdowns, returning to something they had dropped. Your therapist will also track specific goals agreed at the start.

Will you tell me what my child says?

You will get themes and guidance, not a running account. Confidentiality is what makes the room usable for a child. Anything relating to their safety comes to you immediately and without exception.

Do I need to be in the room?

Usually not, though with very young or anxious children we sometimes begin with you present and step back gradually. Some approaches deliberately involve parents in sessions, and we will discuss that if it fits.

How long does it take?

Longer than adult brief therapy. Twenty sessions is a common minimum, and children with trauma histories often need considerably more. Progress tends to arrive in steps rather than steadily.

Is play therapy covered by insurance?

Yes, when provided by a licensed clinician it is billed as psychotherapy. We verify your child’s coverage before starting.

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